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This is a look at some of the aspects of this weird world.A lot of it is harmless, plenty of it is funny, but a large amount is genuinely unsettling.Is love just one trick, technique, or pick-up line away? Any technique, tactic, or dating strategy is not a fool-proof, never-fail, approach. However, "game", "seduction", "rules" and other approaches can make someone more likely to like you, love you, and want to take you home. This topic was explored by a recent article by Oesch and Miklousic (2012) in the journal of Evolutionary Psychology.When they work, they do so by tapping into some very basic, evolutionary and psychological mechanisms. In the article, the two authors describe the parallels between pick-up artist seduction tactics and what evolutionary psychology theory says about human courtship.Well, I say how to talk to girls (or guys) but this applies to talking to anyone for the point of romantic interest. Use your imagination for this bit: Let's pretend you're a woman in this scenario.Doesn't matter if you are a man or a woman, looking for a man or a woman; we're all human beings, our brains are made the same way, so the rules are pretty much exactly the same. I assume you've read the previous two articles on where to meet and how to approach? So in our hypothetical situation, Joe and approached Jane in a very non-threatening way and offset her defensive systems with a time deflection. Picture yourself (as a woman) standing at the vegetable isle of a supermarket, looking for the best-looking tomato to buy.
I will continue to write and respond as much as my time and health allow. I get a number of questions from readers about pick-up artists, game, and seduction techniques. Can you really use a technique get "someone to fall in love with you".."go to bed with you"?Welcome back to The Attraction Doctor I would like to begin by thanking you all for your many comments, requests for advice, and inquiries about my in-process book.I am working diligently, but have been slowed by some health issues.If you don't get that sentence, you really should skim through the how to approacharticle first. A fairly normal looking guy approaches you and starts talking. In the second case, there is less pressure to engage, and you feel more relaxed.Now imagine him facing directly towards you when he talks, then imagine him facing the tomatos and looking at them as he's talking. In the first case, it is clear he is there to talk to you. Now replay the same situation if you were sitting down, perhaps at a bus stop.